Tuesday, April 17, 2018

The Inner Child Project: The Toddler Self- Part 1

 The Inner Child Project:  
The Toddler Self
18 months-3 years
Part 1




 The Toddler is mobile enough to walk away from the caregiver and verbal enough to refuse and protest.  They are learning how to establish and maintain personal boundaries- emotional and physical separations from the caretakers.  This teaches you how to be independent.   Testing how much you  can participate in the outside world and still come back to your caretaker and  be loved is a dynamic you will carry into every relationship.  

In The Inner Child Workbook, under the section for the Toddler Self, exercise #1 asks 5 questions  which deal with saying and being told no as well as honoring boundaries.  These question are meant to make you think about your ideas and behaviors now and how they effect your relationships.  Exercise #2 is an extension of thinking about how we carry these issues into our lives today.  This exercise was very eye opening and ends with a short summary of problems you need to address with your Toddler Self.  

I found that I needed to work on:
  1.   Boundaries- taking on the feelings of others and becoming one person  Possibly I had rigid boundaries from my caregiver.
  2. Saying No- maybe I wasn't allowed to say no or I was made to feel shameful when I did.
  3. Independence- I don't feel safe enough to be independent and separate.  Possibly an aggressive caregiver.
  4. Trust - Supposed to be able to be independent and go away from your caregiver but come back and check in and trust that when you do you are still loved.  One of my biggest issues is with trust so maybe this was not happening. 
At this point I decided to stop the exercises and create a quick mixed media painting of a toddler who feels the way that I would at that stage in life under the above mentioned conditions.  As I am drawing and painting, I am acknowledging the pain of the Inner Toddler.  Then I use my words to sooth and fix the concerns, issues, and behaviors of this Inner Child.



Friday, April 13, 2018

Journal 2 Weeks 13, 14, 15 with Effy Wild



 Journal 52:  Playing Catch Up
Week 15- Clarity
Week 14- Storm
Week 13- Embodied

Go to this blog post in order to see all three art journal spreads :-)



Tuesday, April 10, 2018

The Inner Child Project- The Infant Self

The Inner Child Project- The Infant Self



The first part of the infant self can be found in my previous blog post https://messyjessycreates.blogspot.com/2018/02/the-inner-child-project-infant-self_28.html

This painting is of me as an infant.  After working through the exercises for this developmental stage of my inner child, I could paint myself as a happy infant.

According to Cathryn Taylor in The Inner Child Workbook, There are several steps involved in dealing with childhood pain which are used at each level of child development AKA with each of your inner children.
  1. Identify the pain
  2. Researching your pain
  3. Regressing to the feelings of your self at that level of child inner self
  4. Objectifying your pain
  5. Grieving your inner child's pain
  6. Healing your pain and reclaiming your joy
Each of these steps is accompanied by numerous exercises to help you through this journey.  If you are really interested in healing, many of our adult issues come from needs from some part of our inner child development, here is the link. 

I work through the workbook and exercises and use art as my medium to help express myself and record my progress.  I can also take my paintings and talk about them with my therapist.  

Monday, April 2, 2018

2018 Moonshine with Effy Wild Art Journal Spread for March 31 Blue Moon in Libra

2018 Moonshine 
with Effy Wild 
Art Journal Spread 
for March 31 
Blue Moon in Libra
Tree Sign Alder
My personal Oracle Card from my Tarot Deck:  Justice



Wednesday, March 28, 2018

The Inner Child Project- The Guardian

The Inner Child Project- The Guardian


This year I have been doing some inner child work (see my other blog posts) and came to the point in the process where I am supposed to create a Guardian to look over and protect my inner children as I do this work.  I happened to be participating in a free mini-class by Ivy Newport ( https://ivynewport.com/spring-fever ) in which we use our own portrait to create a guardian angel.  While I was working, it just hit me out of nowhere that I should be my own guardian angel- my grown self.  So, I finished the painting and call her "The Guardian" and she will join my other inner child paintings to watch over and protect all of the inner children.



Tuesday, March 27, 2018

Book of Days Week 13 with Effy Wild

Book of Days Week 13 with Effy Wild

"In the Round"


Mandalas tell a story.  According to 100mandalas,  there are 12 psychological stagesthat we all go through in life which can be divided into four categories:  milestones, creativity, challenges, and embracing something new.  I chose to combine challenges and embracing something new to create my art journal pages.  I chose to look at sameness and change.  I ended up with a two sided mandala and freejournaling about each.  All of my art journal page was done with Sakura Jelly Roller Pens on black gesso.

Tuesday, March 20, 2018

Journal 52 Week 11 DREAM with Effy Wild

Journal 52 
Week 11 
DREAM 
with Effy Wild

Artists have many dreams.  Some say they are dreamers.  I have had many dreams and have fulfilled many of them.  I have been published numerous times, participated in a few shows, sold my art at art fairs, etc.  The past year or so I haven't really been feeling it.  I really didn't have a focus.   However, I have recently been asked for pieces by several businesses in my area.  So now, I have a new dream.